Not an easy thing to do by any means is it? Past experiences, whether good or bad, can colour the way we perceive things in the future, that’s just human nature. However, by allowing this to happen we unwittingly put restrictions in place and that’s not good is it? We deserve better, so be kind to yourself, and leave what’s already in the past where it belongs, in the past. There’s no way you would be silly enough to allow it power over your future now is there? Of course not!